Monday, May 10, 2010

why we're choosing cloth:

I'm slowly turning into some kind of crunchy mama over here and have fully jumped on the cloth diapering wagon. I personally only know a couple families that actually cloth diaper. It isn't very popular among crowds. And folks still have the idea of "folding and using diaper pins" stuck in their minds.

Ew.

So why are we cloth diapering? Well, it's easy: It's what's best for our daughter!

With all the researching that I've done, I surely have not missed out on CDing (cloth diapering). Mark has never questioned CDing once -- he pretty much just trusts me to make big decisions on this since kids are my thing. And he's excited too! ... I promise.

Let me first come out and say: Cloth diapering is cheaper. A lot cheaper. On average, a child will need 6,000 diaper changes before their second birthday. Based on the average cost of 25.5 cents/diaper, diapering with disposables will cost about $1600 ($66.00 per month) to diaper for 2 years, excluding the cost of disposable wipes (Earth Angels Diaper Co). That's a lot of money to poop on something and throw it away.

An entire set of cloth diapers costs about $400. And you're set. Forever. And if you can take care of them well, you can use them for your next child and really save. That alone is enough reason for us to switch to cloth. Why wouldn't we save money where we can? Really. We'd rather use that extra money for trips back to Kentucky. Just sayin.


Point 2: I've changed my share of dirty diapers in my lifetime. It isn't fun, it really stinks, and poop is gross. But I am here to announce: changing disposable diapers is gross too. Just because you use disposables doesn't mean that you escape the "gross factor." I've never changed a CD, I'll admit, but I will say that it looks just as easy and you actually touch the diaper the exact same amount of time. I think people dwell a tad too much on the ick-ness and forget that, GASP, our ancestors ONLY had cloth diapers!!! Yes, our buff great-grandmothers (and hundreds of grandmas back) had to deal with poop. And lots of it. They survived. It isn't a new concept!! :)


Cloth-diapered babies potty train faster. They are more apt to feel wetness than a child in disposables. "Studies" show that CD kids potty train about 6 months earlier. This is good news to me!

It's rare to obtain diaper rash while in a cloth diaper. There are no chemicals, and you're using all-natural soap. So you can nix out all the Butt Paste since you won't need it. If you need to apply a little cream every time you change your baby's diaper, isn't that kind of a red flag? Maybe all those chemicals in disposables aren't very healthy. (I seriously urge you to click that link and read what EXACTLY is found in disposable diapers. Um, SCARY!)

It's actually illegal to throw poop away. Did you know? Yes, it's against the law. You're actually SUPPOSED to flush the poop down the toilet and then throw the diaper away. I know of no one who actually does this. I promise. You can even Google it.

It only adds up to 2 or 3 extra loads of laundry a week. And you use a fraction of the amount of soap for regular clothes. Not a big deal at all. No one likes to do laundry, but it isn't a huge deal.

Last of all, they're cute!! Yes, what a vain reason, but it's a reason nonetheless! Cloth diapers are extremely adorable. I'm torn between bumGenius & gDiapers. I don't know how I'll ever choose.

G's:



orrr bumGenius:



baby legs!


So there you have it. If you still think we're nutty, at least you have to admit that cloth diapers are insanely adorable. I can't wait to begin our stash!!! Soon, I'll be doing a post on why we will be toting our baby in a sling. Babywearing is an aspect of attachment parenting, which I mentioned we are "fans" of. I know, I know, you CANNOT wait! :)


Sunday, May 9, 2010

Fancy Nancy luncheon!

Once upon a time
I met a little girl
Dressed in pink, with a crown
Her hair done up in curls


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She invited me to a party
a luncheon, if you will
We headed to Williamsburg
And, oh, it was a thrill!

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A Fancy Nancy party
with little girls in pink
But I'd never read this book series..
so I didn't know what to think!

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And we enjoyed an adorable lunch,
tea sandwiches, veggies & fruit.
We even got dessert:
two teeny cupcakes -- so cute!!

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Did I mention where this was held?
Yankee Candle, oh yes!
Surrounded by yummy smells
This store was simply the best!


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We wandered round Christmas Town
and through Vera Bradley too
I'd never seen so many candles
My pregnant nose didn't know what to do :)

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So I got a little taste of what
my life might be like someday
Little girls, dressed in pink
Princesses alllll the way!


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What a cute little time! The four of us headed to Williamsburg to the gigantic Yankee Candle store -- where they have everything you could ever imagine. Scents I'd never even heard of. Beautiful decorations and purses and so much more. I'm so not used to girly activities. In fact, I rather miss cheering on my nephew at soccer games!!

I'm so very excited to see what our daughter will be interested in. Mark is already planning daddy-daughter camping trips in his mind. I'm dreaming about which instrument she will choose. (Our church offers music lessons and orchestra for children!)

Today, we celebrated my first Mother's Day by going to Texas Roadhouse. And then I came home and took a nap. Church was wonderful, and our babe really enjoyed the sermon on Nehemiah. And by "really enjoyed," I mean she couldn't sit still. We've covered a chapter of Nehemiah each week, and I must admit -- I've never known so much detail about Nehemiah's life!


I so love being pregnant. Besides occasionally throwing up (it's becoming less frequent!), and weird hip and back pain, my pregnancy is great! I love my daughter so much, and in case you're wondering, I still can't believe that she is actually a she. I can't wait to raise my daughter and have the "best friend" relationship that my mom and I have :)

You might know that I love researching everything. To death. Especially on natural parenting.


Because every single choice I make affects our daughter. Where I choose to give birth. Whether or not I choose medication. If I choose to breastfeed. If we co-sleep. If we practice attachment parenting. The vaccination schedule I put her on. Everything. So, yes, you could say that we research a lot, because ignorance is not bliss when it comes to parenting. In our opinion :)

And it's pretty safe to say that we agree whole-heartedly with Dr. Sears, if you're familiar with his beliefs!

One of these days (maybe tomorrow!), I'll start blogging about why we're choosing the things we will choose, such as cloth diapering. And natural childbirth (pending my our health). And attachment parenting (& babywearing). Can't wait!

Friday, May 7, 2010

17 weeks and puppy love

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How far along? 17 weeks!!

Total weight gain: at my appointment, I gained 6lbs - but that was after eating Mexican food. I weighed myself yesterday morning and I lost 3, so I'm still holding steady at a 3.5lb gain.

Total inches gained: who knows.

Maternity clothes? I love my maternity shorts. I have shorts that would definitely fit, but my maternity shorts are fun :) and I require more loose-fitting shirts.

Sleep: Sleeping better!!

Best moment this week: Our 3D/4D ultrasound & seeing our little one in such clear detail!

Movement: multiple times a day. definitely at morning, around 10, after lunch, in the afternoon, after supper, and before bed. I'd say I feel movement every 2 or 3 hours.

Gender: daddy's little PRINCESS! (his words -- he already calls her his princess!)

Labor Signs: no way!!

Belly Button in or out? haha.. in!!

What I miss: not having weird hip and back pain

Weekly Wisdom: shell out the money for the 3D ultrasound. how could you regret seeing your precious baby? It's the best thing in the world!!! definitely worth the money.

Milestones: feeling movement often and finding out we are having a little girl!


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almost the same photo as the one up top
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for your viewing pleasure!


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This morning I woke up really early. Piper scootched closer to me, put a paw on my chest, and laid her head on me. We just stared at each other for 10 minutes. I swear she is the love of my life (other than Mark, of course!) Don't worry - Mark feels the same way. We love our dog so much it hurts. Before we go to sleep each night, we talk about our daughter and what we think she'll do.

Now Mark says she's a tennis-playing, golf-playing, soccer-playing, lover of camping. Okay then.

But our favorite thing is to discuss how our daughter will know and grow up with Piper. We can't wait for the two of them to meet. Piper is just smitten for her baby sister already. In fact, she went out and bought a polka dot pink collar to celebrate her sister:

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I know. Piper's darling. Piper is more like a cat and seriously sleeps and cuddles all day. We know that she will be a pro at being a big sister. Like Punkin, Piper has daddy wrapped around her little finger:

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What you might not know is that Piper is very attached to her daddy. Very. If she catches me laying on Mark's lap, she will (seriously) crawl up on the couch, walk on his lap, and plop her butt right in my face. She thinks daddy's lap is her spot and she doesn't want to share with me. She'll have to get used to it since our daughter will get first dibs on daddy's lap for the rest of her life.

But for now, it's funny.

Oh, and our dog knows the command "Jump!" as pictured here:

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Yep, we love her. An insane amount. If you have a dog, you can relate. If not, you might think we're crazy. She has five more months of being the center of our attention. And then she'll have to fork it over to her newest pack leader, Punkin Cox.

Piper is so ready.

I hope.

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yes, that's a wink.




Edited to add: Yesterday just so happened to be Piper's 11-month birthday. She will soon be one year old. Sniff. Where does the time go, really?


Wednesday, May 5, 2010

just more info on princess Punkin.

Yesterday, our friends Chris & Brittney from Back to the Quarry had their firstborn son!! He's absolutely adorable and looks just like his daddy. They're all super healthy, super happy, and super duper in love. Just wanted to give you all an update since many of you also read their blog!


This article was just released on Yahoo, and it's pretty darn shocking. In case you don't want to read it, I'll sum it up. The United States:
-Is ranked 28th best country to be a mother
-Is ranked worse than countries like Latvia, Estonia, & Croatia
-Has one of the highest maternal mortality rates ever (1 in 4800)
-An American mother is 5 times more likely to die in labor than a Bosnian woman
-Has one of the highest "under 5" death rates. 1 in 1000 kids under 5 will die in the US.
-A child is more than twice as likely as a child in Finland, Iceland, Sweden or Singapore to die before his or her fifth birthday
-The USA has the worst maternity leave of any other country


Mark came home for lunch today and said, "She needs a princess house!" ..I said "What? Our daughter? Like a play house for the backyard?!" Um yes. Mark is already planning her backyard toys; he insists that she is "our little princess" and that I am now Queen Bee. Yesterday he took off to Target because he "just had to buy something for her!" How adorable that, at 16 weeks gestation, our daughter already has him wrapped around her little finger.

I have no cravings.. ever. But I am often hungry. So hungry that my stomach growls out loud and I get stomach pains. Cereal is my best friend forever. Like, minimal cereal and a big bowl of milk. What could be better than a bowl of milk? Nothing! :)


Yesterday, someone (I really forget who..) posted on my wall that I'll forever have a best friend now. And isn't that the truth?! I can't wait to have a mother-daughter relationship with our little Punkin. I especially can't wait for the moody teenage years :) but I can't wait to have a shopping buddy and a best friend forever. I always thought we would have a girl, and I definitely felt like I was carrying a girl, but now it's real. And we'll always have a daughter. We love her so much, you don't even know.




Tuesday, May 4, 2010

ultrasound overload and GENDER REVEAL!

Today was our 3D/4D ultrasound -- what an experience! Our little one was fast asleep, as I expected. Earlier this morning I felt lots of movement, so I was pretty sure that Punkin would be asleep by the afternoon.

And yep, we definitely have a stubborn baby. If you recall, our baby would not have anything to do with the Nuchal Translucency screening. We went through the same stubbornness today. But what could be cuter than a little sleeping baby?

But we immediately got sweet peeks at our little one with one arm up near the face the whole time. She said that healthy babies put their hands near their faces to comfort themselves. She also said that our baby had all its parts and was looking right on track!

Now on with the show. Hopefully you can make out our baby in each photo. Our baby has a big head and arms scrunched up near the face in every photo. It's pretty easy to make out.

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See that big, beautiful spine!?
Our baby has its right arm across its face..
you can see the right hand on the right side of the photo.

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Oh look, another photo with an arm in the way!
This kid is not photogenic.
Big problem for the Cox household!!!!!

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Oh look. Now BOTH arms in front of the face!


But don't worry :) Our ultrasound lady was very patient...


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Hopefully you can tell that's our baby's face
and hand left hand by the head, waving at us!


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Our baby's whole body
Little legs crossed!


Oh and of course one more photo of our stubborn baby:

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Totally hiding in my placenta.
But that is a mighty cute neck, isn't it?


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Cute little grin on the face, can you see?

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cute nose!!!!!


Oh my gosh, I almost forgot the most important thing of all - the gender!

After lots of wiggling and jiggling and moving around,
our stubborn baby proves to be a...

GIRL!

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Her three little lines proving that she is ALL GIRL!
(the arrow is pointing to the 3 lines - the lines of the vagina, ahem)


We are totally thrilled and excited! Mark is already talking about "learning how to raise a girl" and talking about all the things she will do. Talks of tennis (oook.. ?) and camping are already in the works. If she proves to be an athletic star, it will not be from my genes, that's for sure!

Our experience with our 3D ultrasound was so great! We intend on going back for another 3D/4D u/s around 31 weeks to get the chubby cheeks and see who she looks like! And now we can officially look at baby girl hats, dresses, and toys. Bring on the baby dolls!!!!



Monday, May 3, 2010

appointment & plant.

Today was my 16 week appointment to check up on our little one. Thankfully, Mark is always able to come to my appointments, which he really loves! There's not much to report on -- I peed in a cup and heard our babe's heartbeat. Punkin is scooting right along on schedule and has a strong heartbeat of 154bpm.

Tomorrow night we will be touring our birthing center (a requirement to give birth there). I also just emailed two teachers of a natural birthing class that we are required to attend. Actually, the class meets a lot. I'll know more about the schedule and things very soon. As my midwife says, "Anyone can breathe through pain, but this class tells you why you feel the way you do and exactly what's going on."

She also told me that I can't actually give birth in the water, but I can labor in water all I want. Since I'm a first time mom, they can't allow me to do it. I really, really wanted a water birth, but I guess I can have that experience with my second child (a long time from now). She said I can push in the water and then hop out when it's really go-time.

And, if you're keeping up with things, you might know that TOMORROW we find out if I'm carrying a boy or a girl! Our appointment is at 2:30pm Eastern time. I'll be announcing the gender here first, NOT on Facebook. So keep an eye out! We are thrilled and extremely excited to see our babe in 3D & 4D. We'll be getting a DVD of him/her moving around in the womb, which will be extremely precious. Our next ultrasound is June 1st, which will be the anatomy u/s where they measure our baby extensively.

Tomorrow will be an exciting day for us!

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Remember when I made a list of things I want to do? One of them was to grow my own tomatoes. I haven't forgotten about my list and am still very serious about it. Today, we bought our little tomato plant!

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Isn't it cute? Hopefully it grows, flourishes, and makes me many yummy tomatoes. I just had a tomato for lunch today. It was pathetic and pink (not great), so I'm excited about home-grown tomatoes! We're growing Better Boy tomatoes. I'm not really sure what the difference between them is, but that's that!


Tomorrow can't get here fast enough. SO ready for that ultrasound!!!


Sunday, May 2, 2010

seriously cute.


cutest 21 month old I know!